The musings of a resilient widow!

The musings of a resilient widow!

Returning home after being away for about 12 months, I didn’t expect not to have maintenance issues. I expected it! I came home prepared but not prepared for the idiosyncrasies of some of the workmen. The building had electrical, plumbing and other issues. Two...
Widowed not withered!

Widowed not withered!

My dear widowed friend, there are relationships you must not be part of. Those people that cut you off might not be just because they wanted to cut you off but because God made them cut you off, that way you go on this journey with less baggage, become less dependent,...
Widowed not Withered!

Widowed not Withered!

“Your father is dead now, you are our father and the man now and you have to do what you have to do to take care of the family.” Now, this Statement isn’t followed up with defining ‘do what you have to do.’ It’s an open-ended and...
Widowed not withered

Widowed not withered

It is a long read that’s a year old but you can read to the end. Each time I go out to the mission field and return, I become more grateful to God. I meet widows who are unable to pay for proper medical treatment and rather buy from Patent medicine dealers even...
I made a Choice

I made a Choice

This is one of my favorite photos. It was out of a photo shoot session to model for my dear friend and sister, NHN. This photo was taken when my mood was experiencing wild swings. One second I was ok and next minute I was back in gloom. But then during the shoot, I...
Use those stones!!

Use those stones!!

They tell you you are ugly, fat, skinny, poor, uneducated, not well educated, local, Igbotic, unexposed, undignified, below their standards, don’t fit into their social circle, and you allow the words to become your limitations???? They talk down on you!!! Some...