Dear Widowed Community 1

Dear widowed community, there are many myths and beliefs some of us grew up believing about widowhood. And we keyed in as soon as we lost our spouse forgetting that we are called by the name of God. Therefore shall not be bound by practices passed down from cultures...
Mindset Shift 2

Mindset Shift 2

What do you say? The objective of this question is to make you think back and review what you say. Does it empower or drain you? Yes, I mean, the words you speak when adversity confronts you. Does it empower your thoughts and lead you to goal-oriented actions, or does...
Mindset Shift: Part 1.

Mindset Shift: Part 1.

My dear widowed community, from my experience since May 2001,interviewing, counseling and intervening in widows’ issues; I discovered that a good number of widows say negative words over their situation. Yes, widowhood is a tough terrain but then your mindset could...
Live and let live!

Live and let live!

In as much as you are also widowed, you don’t have the right to define for another widow how to run her life or her children. That you’re widowed for 20 or 30 years doesn’t mean you’re fit to shove it down the throat of a fresh widow how to...